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Posted on: 2012-04-27

Posted by: Mahesh Pd. Sharma

I do believe in the fact that compromises is an essential element of life, lacking into which can cause an unease breakthrough in the relationship. As it’s the human nature that every human opinion and thinking is of its own kind and he/she will try the best to make it happen by stating his/her opinion by passing the ideas and views of its own kind and with positive aspects. The reality factor followed practical aspects are the key factor driven to comprise others for the views as placed. While placing an example, after completing my graduation level, suddenly an employment offer has been placed for me with a condition to be deputed outside Katmandu valley. On one hand I was happy enough for getting the Job and on the other hand I had to compromise with my family members and to the situation over here. Finally I made the decisions to be appointed as that was the first offer of job for me which in my opinion was suitable. However at that point of time I was feeling that I made compromise with that situation for getting appointed with the job offer outside valley. However lapsing almost 8 Years, at this situation I feel that the compromise I made had paid be well enough and I am well satisfied with my decision which was being made at that point of time. Hence I don’t believe in the fact that every compromise merely means to surrender. I am agreed with the statement that life is far from perfect its largely a compromise as compromise exists in all aspects of life.

Posted on: 2012-04-27

Posted by: yush

Human relationships are based on understanding, love and care. I don't like to call it 'compromise' that relationships based on. sacrificing desire automatically comes when there is understanding, love and care. In that type of case, people will get satisfaction on sacrifice. Compromises create ego, comparative analysis, favoritism etc which, ultimately results breakdown of relationships. Rather than compromises, I believe in understanding, love and care for smooth relationship . Only then, there will be win win situation.

Posted on: 2012-04-27

Posted by: pabhassara tamrakar

compromise is the one of the way of stress management,though sometime it is good option and sometime it's hard to tolerate and move on but i usually do lot of compromise mostly it gives me happiness as to see my lovable person being happy and not in pain.I think compromise is not bad option but everything has limitation,its gives happiness as well as pain,its up to you,how do handle the thing.life is merely how you react when problem occur neither problem occur in life.

Posted on: 2012-04-24

Posted by: basanti timalsina

Compromising in life doesn't really make people happy. The word 'COMPROMISE' itself is not pleasing to hear. in many instances people compromise out of a compulsion. People have unlimited wants and desires and to get them fulfilled they do compromise. And in personal relationships too people doesn't hesitate to compromise. compromising in relationships make the relationship too shallow and least happy will the person be in such relationship. Compromising in relationships is a big 'NO-NO' for me and i never prefer it.

Posted on: 2012-04-22

Posted by: Pawan Gupta

Yes,it is well known fact compromises are a part and parcel of life .To elongate a relationship two person of same attitude never works together.One person has to compromise to sustain .If one is unable to do that then relationship has to be broken one day.say for instance,i have a aim to become a doctor in life and my parents wont able to support me in that regards so,finally i have to make a call what to do next in life.So for me i have to compromise with the situation and head towards my other alternative option . so after that incident i finally diverted from my goal and thats a compromise i made in my life regarding selecting my future.so lastly all person does it one day.

Posted on: 2012-04-22

Posted by: Rasbin Rijal

In arguments, compromise is a concept of finding agreement through communication, involving variations from an original goal or desire. Although, it is not good to compromise every time for the sake of keeping human relationships going, I think still we should make some kind of compromise for not breaking our relations with our near and dear ones. Once, I made a compromise with my friend for not breaking our friendship and I am happy with that decision, I have never regretted since he is one of my best friend till this time. So, on my view we should make some compromises but not always since making compromises all the time makes us weak.

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Question

It is said that compromises are a must to keep human relationships going. Do you think compromises really help build any relationship? Share any one instance in your life when you have compromised with a person or situation to save your relationship. Did that decision make you happy? Explain.