LONDON: Actress Gwyneth Paltrow is struggling to strike a balance between family and work and wants advice from Kate Winslet and Cate Blanchett who are in the same situation. Paltrow, who is married to Coldplay singer Chris Martin, has two children — two-year-old daughter Apple and 10-month-old son Moses. After her son’s birth she is slowly getting back to work and wants to call her colleagues in the industry to find out ways to handle the transition, reported She said, “I’m not going to work like I did before I had kids. I want to call Kate Winslet and say, ‘Can you tell me how to do this?’ or Cate Blanchett and ask her to describe her day from 7:00 am on and tell me what to do because I don’t know how to do this!”