It is jealousy towards me that makes the person say or do so”, a lot of

people like making this kind of a statement to themselves, but alas!

not many a times would they be found right.

Most of the time it is mere consolation towards oneself which actually works as a concealer when a person knows deep down that one is inefficient in someway or the other, lacks the ability to accept the fact that one cannot always be right and fails to see anything that could be done to place oneself beside that other self assumed jealous person.

When a second person holds an objection towards our opinion or behavior, we generally conclude that it is a result of jealousy and the agreement isn’’t possible because s/he is not capable of thinking like me or being what I am.

Right at this moment we need to understand that the second person’’s objection could be for a simple reason that all individuals are distinct and posses their own minds and their own way of thinking or looking at things.

Objection is not necessarily due to jealously and one needs to get into the habit of embracing acceptance.

Everybody around you can’’t be like you and you need to analyze and interpret their thoughts too and not always put oneself on top and see other’’s opinion as sinister design in wanting to conquer your dignified place.

Rather than judging somebody on your selfmade principles, it is much nicer to be accepting people the way God made them. Acceptance is holy and acceptance is best for assimilation.

Man is a social animal and acceptance is the basis of socialization, so why not learn or at least try to learn to be social and be cultured. To be cultured is to accept the differences and take people as they are.

Today’’s world is a world of multi-culturism and you can’’t stick to your ethos and take everybody beside yourself to be wrong simply for them having their individual opinion.

Rather than placing yourself on the summit and looking down on everybody, one needs to learn to keep oneself along everybody else and who knows you may even learn a thing or two from the person you might have categorized as inferior just because of jealousy.