CREDOS: Balance of life - II
When I got home I was exhausted but I would push myself and read my children a bedtime story. By the time I went to bed, I would be more than exhausted. The boss I had was very demanding. She was there early in the morning, late at night, and she always worked weekends. I felt I had to do the same - I needed the job to help support my family - just as you did. But then I had a change of bosses. The man I worked for was older and much wiser, I might add! Of course, I continued to work the hours I had been working. One day he came to my desk and passed me a card that had a quote on it which said, ‘What I do today is important, because I will never have today again’ - then he left.
I sat there stunned. I suddenly thought of what was important to me. While my work was important, I realized my children were more important. I also realized that time for me was important. It was 4:30, the official closing time of the office. I straightened my desk, felt a twinge of guilt about leaving, but I forced myself to leave. I was home by 5:00. My children and husband were surprised. I had a wonderful evening. It was not a chore to read that bedtime story that evening.”
Mary was looking at her friend thoughtfully and then questioned Susan about the work she had left on her desk.
Susan replied, “I never thought this possible, but I actually accomplished more the next day then I had in weeks. As I was leaving the next day I stopped at my new boss’s office and thanked him for the quote. He told me a story about advice his dad had given him many years ago when he was working night and day. He referred to it as ‘Balance of Life’. His dad told him to keep balance in his work, in his family life and in time for himself. — wow4u.com