Lessons to be learnt
So teach him to close
the door”, my daughter Emma responded after listening to me complain, again, about the dog coming in from the back door, bringing with him a blast of Buffalo January cold air.
Teach a dog to close a door behind him? You got to be kidding. That has got to be a really, really hard thing to do, and I do not have any dog credentials following my name. But then she took it a step further. “Come on Kolby”, she said, grabbing some treats and positioning him in front of the open door. “Touch.”
And “touch” he did, which moved the door
to a closed position. She
rewarded him with a treat, smiled, looked at me, and said “see!”
And I saw and became convinced. Each time Kolby comes in I bring him back to the open door and ask him to close (I changed the target word, making the command more specific). There have been failures, but lately more and more successes. And I knew we turned the corner this morning when he asked to be let out just so I would open the door, so that he could close it and be treated. WOW
What a treat to have a dog that can close the door after himself. Even more wonder can be found in the lessons I learned so clearly from both Emma and Kolby. A wish is just a wish until you decide to take action. Once you decide to accomplish a goal, and decide that it “is” easy (remember Emma’s assurance), than it becomes easy to do what needs to be done. Just start doing it.
As long as one holds on to the belief that it is “too hard”, then it remains “too hard” and out of reach.
Working towards the accomplishment of a goal can be loads of fun, and full of lots and lots of treats.
So what have you been wishing for lately? And what has been stopping you from getting started? —achieveezine.com