The journey to the top: Lessons beyond the crown
Published: 02:20 pm Sep 03, 2026
On 22 August 2026, Bhaisepati Toastmasters Club marked a significant milestone with its 318th meeting, bringing together a day of speeches, conversations and reflections around a theme that resonates far beyond the world of public speaking: 'Journey to the Top.' The meeting took on a special significance as the club welcomed three accomplished young women who have recently reached the national stage-Miss Nepal World 2026 Deepmala Dhakal, Miss Nepal Cosmo 2026 Kashish Subba, and Miss Nepal International 2026 Arya Nishaant. Rather than simply being guests of honor, all three actively participated in the meeting and shared their personal 'Journey to the Crown' with those present. Their stories offered a perspective often hidden behind the glamour of a crown: the uncertainty, discipline, preparation, setbacks and perseverance that preceded a moment of recognition. The day's central message was simple but powerful: reaching the top is not a destination. It is another point from which a new journey begins. For many, success is associated with a single defining moment-the trophy, the title, the promotion or the applause. Yet the journeys shared during the meeting highlighted that such moments are only the visible part of a much longer process. Behind every achievement are countless hours of preparation, moments of self-doubt and the willingness to continue when the outcome is far from certain. This idea also lies at the heart of Toastmasters. While the organization is widely known for helping people become better public speakers, its deeper purpose is the development of confidence, leadership and the ability to communicate with clarity and purpose. Every speech is an opportunity to step outside one's comfort zone; every evaluation is an opportunity to improve; and every meeting becomes another step in a much longer personal journey. The presence of the three Miss Nepal titleholders therefore created an interesting intersection between two very different-looking journeys. One is a structured journey of communication and leadership undertaken through a community organization; the other is a highly visible national competition culminating in a crown. Yet the underlying lessons are remarkably similar. Success demands preparation. Growth requires accepting feedback. Confidence is built gradually rather than inherited. And perhaps most importantly, achievement does not eliminate the need to keep learning. The three speakers also demonstrated another important aspect of leadership: the ability to connect with people. By sharing their experiences in an interactive setting rather than simply delivering formal addresses, they became participants in the meeting's larger conversation about ambition, resilience and personal growth. For the members of Bhaisepati Toastmasters Club, the meeting was more than an opportunity to meet national titleholders. It was a reminder that every person in the room is somewhere along their own journey to the top. Some may be beginning, some may be climbing, while others may already have achieved milestones they once considered distant dreams. And once one summit is reached, another inevitably appears. That may be the most meaningful lesson behind the evening's theme. The 'top' is not a fixed destination. It changes as our ambitions, responsibilities and understanding of success evolve. A crown may represent the achievement of one dream, but it can also mark the beginning of a new responsibility and a new challenge. As Bhaisepati Toastmasters Club continues its own journey through its 318th meeting and beyond, the day served as a fitting reminder of what makes journeys worthwhile-not merely the recognition waiting at the summit, but the people we meet, the lessons we learn and the person we become along the way. The crown may be the moment everyone sees. The journey is what truly makes it meaningful.