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MIDWAY: Salve for the spirit

MIDWAY: Salve for the spirit

By Biplabi Shrestha

I am not a student of social work. But I believe I have all the requirements of what it takes to make a good social worker. For I believe that social workers are not recognised by their degrees, but rather their deeds. They should have the willingness to serve those in real need without expecting anything in return. However, it is not true that there are no returns for helping a needy. But it’s spiritual and cannot be counted or measured, only felt.

All this might sound hollow to anyone who has never had the experience of what I am talking about. This kind of talk rang empty to me as well... before I accompanied a friend to Pashupati bridhashram.

At first, I didn’t feel anything out of normal. But the feelings that welled up in me after we were done for the day cannot be described in words. It was as if I got everything I ever wanted without giving anything in return.

Before that experience, I always wondered how the saints did it. How could they devote their entire lives for the good? I got the answer that day. I realised that besides the likes of saintly

figures like Mother Teresa, ordinary folks like you and I could also get into social work and find great satisfaction in it. All one needs is a big heart.

A friend of mine used to read books to the visually handicapped people. Though a busy person, she never failed to take some time out for them. “This is more for myself than for them,” she used to say.

Another good friend always makes himself available for those who want to pour out their hearts. He might not have a good suggestion handy, but those who unwind before him say they feel light and calm. He has an amazing ability to listen to people in sorrow and empathise with them. Though they come to him with sadness written all over their faces, he makes sure they go away with a smile. “Bringing a smile to at least one face makes my day,” he always says. I would argue that he is as much a social worker as any great saint.

Satisfaction is the key in social work. It’s all about that satisfying feeling you take home after helping someone in need. It’s not akin to the satisfaction we earn through material means, but the infinitely more rewarding salve for the spirit.