The current situation in Nepal, and the foreseeable future, paints a poignant picture of the intricate web of complexities that arises when the unfortunate event of a parent's demise in the home country collides with the emotional turmoil experienced by their grieving families residing overseas. Nepali citizens living abroad encounter a myriad of challenges, from grappling with complicated bureaucratic processes to securing essential documentation and arranging affordable airfare and other essential logistics for their return to the homeland. These multifaceted challenges give rise to frustrating delays that inflict emotional distress upon families.

Here, I delve into the intricacies of these challenges and the profound impact they have on Nepali citizens abroad and their families at home. I imagine that, one day, a surge in mortuary refrigerator sales would prompt an internationally-renowned company inthe industry to write a letter to the President of Nepal, a scenario seen in the draft below, that could be perceived as reminiscent of a narrative found in a dark comedy.

Dear President,

I am writing this letter as an expert in the field of mortuary refrigeration systems and their implications to bring to your attention a matter of concern that has recently come to our attention regarding the surge in mortuary refrigerator sales in Nepal. This surge in sales is driven by the unfortunate circumstance where the deceased, particularly parents, are awaiting the return of their children from foreign lands for their final rites. While it is heartening to witness the devotion of Nepali families to pay their respects to their loved ones, this trend also raises questions about the underlying challenges faced by your citizens abroad and the need for timely repatriation procedures. Hence, it is essential that we address the issues related to repatriation processes, providesupport to Nepali citizens abroad, and ensure that families can bid their farewells to their loved ones without undue delay.

In this context, we request that the Nepali government consider examining the root causes behind this surge in mortuary refrigerator sales, and find solutions to expedite repatriation procedures to ease the emotional burden onfamilies during these difficult times.

Sincerely, ...

This hypothetical letter authored by a mortuary refrigerator company, which has been a harsh reality these days, serves as a compelling argument, emphasising the imperative for governmental interventionin identifying and rectifying the root causes behind the surge in sales. This underscores the pressing necessity to rejuvenate the Nepali economy and develop effective strategies to dissuade a significant portion of the youth from emigrating abroad. It highlights a multifaceted problem that requires immediate attention from the government, while the tireless potentialof the Nepali people residing abroad seems both admirable and heart-wrenching to ensuring a proper farewell. The promising dedication displayed by Nepali families living abroad to honour their loved ones is undeniable.

As mortuary refrigerator sales would soar in Nepal, one day, it is evident thatthe root of this issue goes beyond mere commercial success.

The surge in sales is a somber indication that Nepali families, particularly those with loved ones abroad, are grappling with the challenges of managing the final pain. Hence, the Government of Nepal must take proactive steps to identify the root causes of these challenges and work collaboratively with relevant authorities and governments.

This letter, while unconventional in its approach, serves as a poignant reminder of the pressing need to address a critical concern – the retention of our nation's valuable talents and the cultivation of an environment that nurtures their desire to stay and contribute. It is desirable from Nepali society to recognise and support those who have returned with remarkable achievements, appreciating their unwavering promise to the nation and the institutions they serve. The significance of their contributions should transcend bureaucratic impediments, constituting a collective responsibility for both the government and relevant stakeholders to translate this vision into tangible reality.

Nepali socio-political discourse should recognise that their determination is not an isolated issue but a symptom of a broader challenge, namely the imperative to formulate streamlined and effective development policies and plans that can incentivise a broader diaspora to permanently return to Nepal. Neglecting to address this concern could potentially yield a future marked by discouraging socio-economic indicators, reinforcing the perception that Nepal remains a stagnant repository of historical relics rather than a dynamic environment for opportunity and advancement. Inevitably, regardless of the prevailing circumstances, I anticipate that people with Nepali heritage will continue to visit Nepal as tourists for generations to come.

Dr Pandey is an Associate Professor of English at Kathmandu University

A version of this article appears in the print on September 18, 2023, of The Himalayan Times.