Too many people drop their loved ones off at a nursing home, vow to return often, but get busy and rarely return. When my father was in a nursing home, I went to see him several times a week. My mother spent most of her waking hours there in his room with him. It wasn’t easy, especially since it was 65 miles from my front door to his. But we were determined my father would know that we loved him, even after he forgot who we were.

I had to turn away from this sweet lady and wipe away a few tears. Then I turned back around. “My son is coming back to get me. He is going to take me home,” she announced. I smiled and gave her another hug, wishing it was true. “Will you tell my son that I love him when you see him?” she asked. I looked into her eyes and saw tears beyond the smile.

I don’t expect to ever see her son. Actually, if I did, I wouldn’t even know him. Therefore, in an effort to grant a sweet elderly

lady’s heartfelt request, I am writing this story to tell everyone who has loved ones in long-term care facilities that your mother, father, aunt, or uncle misses you very much.

They would like for you to come visit with them. Even though you may not be able to take them home with you, you can go to their meagre home for a brief visit. Your presence would make their day. And don’t forget — your family member loves you with all of his or her heart. And I am certain, just like this lady, they want you to know just how much. — Beliefnet.com (Concluded)