Setting an example’ is noble and commendable provided it is done the right way. This takes the form of acting as role models without putting on airs or flaunting one’s wealth. This is not to say that one should be a paragon of virtue. It’s better to be level headed and heed one’s instincts and experience garnered through the years. Vices are to be avoided as they will only spur the younger generation to do likewise. So following a lifestyle that suits one’s inclinations and desires should be the norm.

Giving in to an impulse of the moment has to be checked. One may not be aware of it but one’s actions are being watched and duly taken note of. So the watchword is to be careful lest sheer carelessness or negligence could set a bad impression. Young minds are quite impressionable and it would be best if one said or did things that are proper and becoming.

Then there are those pop and film stars who by their very persona set a trend. Teenagers look up to them as being exalted in their own rights because they have reached the pinnacle of fame. They are icons who can exert an influence and set an example — so much so that any mitigating example has no chance to make a mark.

The sheer nobility of one’s words and actions can initiate a chain reaction that could last for some time. It is common knowledge that being in the company of good friends can make one behave in a similar manner while a rowdy crowd can ruin one’s life. So setting an example that is noteworthy eventually makes for an effect — if it is done with the right intentions and based on sound judgment.

If one has a fan base it is better to put forth a sterling role — as one’s mannerisms are being scrutinised in detail. Doing things that are not quite in keeping with one’s character should be shelved. For these can create a negative image and allow discrepances to crop up.

One is naturally drawn to an attractive personality who stands head and shoulders above the rest; one who is noted for having a penchant for suitable words and suave manners. The attributes of this gentleman are noted duly and made the subject of remarks — so much that the man sets an example that cuts across age groups, gender differences and social status.