Life skills: Lessons from a jigsaw puzzle

Don’t force a fit. If something is meant to be, it will come together naturally.

• When things aren’t going so well, take a break. Everything will look different when you return.

• Be sure to look at the big picture. Getting hung up on the little pieces only leads to frustration.

• Perseverance pays off. Every important puzzle went together bit by bit, piece by piece.

• When one spot stops working, move to another. But be sure to come back later (see above).

• The creator of the puzzle gave you the picture as a guidebook.

• Variety is the spice of life. It’s the different colours and patterns that make the puzzle interesting.

• Establish the border first. Boundaries give a sense of security and order.

• Don’t be afraid to try different combinations. Some matches are surprising.

• Take time to celebrate your successes (even little ones).

• Anything worth doing takes time and effort. A great puzzle can’t be rushed.