Settling a difference’ is to sort out any disparity brought about by a hastily made remark or an inconsistent statement. This causes ill will and resentment in an otherwise placid relationship. And this can only be sorted out by sharing a common platform.

Nothing is so quick to hurt sentiments as an impromptu, off-the-cuff remark and only an apology can straighten things out. Likewise, one can insist on certain demands without anything coming out of it. Thus it takes forethought and a willingness to abide by the parameters in which one finds oneself. By acknowledging the other’s limitations one can find solace in one’s shortcomings.

Verily, the need is to seek ways to come together to settle the difference in an amicable manner instead of being at loggerheads. Because this only leads to measures which can cut short a relationship. One can come forward to pacify,placate and solve any outstanding difference(s). In case of a setback one needs to remember that it is only temporary and will pave the way to reconciliation. One has to remind oneself that the enmity could be resolved through dialogue. The willingness to share thoughts and emotions could bring about a change of heart and make possible a return to normalcy.

Assuming that there has been a rupture in an ongoing relationship it can be side-stepped by sidelining and accepting it. Thus through an exchange of words designed to affect a recovery, things can slowly become normal to the point where differences disappear, so that the pinpricks which disallowed a coming together can be done away with. To forestall any difference one should be on guard lest it transpire without one’s knowledge.

Keeping every option open for a resolution of the difference could be the best thing to do in one’s interest. An appraisal of the situation could well be in the offing — and shows that everything is under control and that the difference has been pushed to the background.

Whenever one finds oneself down-and-out and dispirited because of differing attitudes, one has to tackle the situation head-on. Sorting out the difference could well be high on the list of priorities since it leads to a heightened sense of well-being.